Have you ever wondered . . . is dark femininity for you?

Power. Seduction. Detachment. Self-discipline. Courage and confidence. Falling in love with the goddess within you. It sounds amazing, doesn’t it? As someone who has fully embraced her dark feminine for years now, I can confirm it has changed my life for the better.

But how do you know if embracing your dark feminine would benefit you?

The below list of 12 statements will make the answer clear. How many of them can you relate to?

Let’s get started…

1. You’re stuck in people-pleasing. The idea of disappointing anyone makes you very anxious, and you’d rather abandon yourself than others.

2. You have a tendency to obsess over an ex or crush, following their social media activity (and that of his relevant ex and comparing yourself with her).

3. You keep choosing people that don’t see your value, in an attempt to prove your value to them, but the pattern never ends with you actually being chosen.

4. You feel insecure about your looks, body or identity.

5. You feel resentful over your past partners and think about revenge often.

6. You feel directionless and lost. For some reason, you find it impossible to say No, or setting boundaries. If you did, you feel like you’d be difficult, dramatic and inconveniencing others.

7. You need others to approve of your choices and validate you, how else are you going to feel chosen?

8. You don’t like what you see when you look in the mirror. You don’t really see your own value, so you desperately want others to choose you and make you feel fulfilled within.

9. You put others first, and disregard your own needs. You’re not loyal to your own self, and you don’t honor yourself. This is you abandoning yourself.

10. You see other women as competition, and men as the prize to fight for.

11. You feel powerless, and consider that life constantly puts you in situations where you’re the victim.

12. You don’t feel safe in your own body, in your own masculine energy. You seek out overly controlling masculine figures, as a way to compensate for the absence (or diminished presence) of your own masculine energy.

How did you find this quiz? Can you relate to any of the above statements? If you answer YES to more than 7, you would definitely benefit from tapping into your dark feminine energy.

To find out how to do this, check out my detailed articles on dark femininity. If there’s any particular area of dark femininity you’d like me to write about next, let me know. 🖤