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Selfcare & Selflove

Self Love Ideas for Valentine’s Day

As beautiful as romantic love is (or dreaming about finding your soulmate, in case you haven’t already), the truth is the only person you’ll always have in your life no matter what, is yourself.

Everything begins from your own self. The love, respect and standards you cultivate for yourself are the reservoir that overspills into every other aspect of your life. That includes relationships.

Here are 8 ways to celebrate your self-love and divine feminine for Valentine’s day… regardless whether you’re single or in a relationship!

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Build Your Business

10 Business Tips For New Entrepreneurs

I have come a long way since being a newbie entrepreneur, so I know what it’s like to feel completely lost, and seemingly swimming with the sharks. Here are my top 10 business tips for new entrepreneurs, tips that have served me best in my own business.

These are not in a particular order nor a roadmap to getting started (I can tackle that in a different article if you’re interested). Instead, this is a list of secret, unspoken and unconventional tips you won’t find via a quick google search or chatgpt prompt. This is the nitty-gritty behind the scenes.

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Dark Feminine

Is Dark Femininity For You?

Power. Seduction. Detachment. Self-discipline. Courage and confidence. Falling in love with the goddess within you.

Dark femininity sounds amazing, doesn’t it? As someone who has fully embraced her dark feminine for years now, I can confirm it has changed my life for the better.

But have you ever wondered . . . is dark femininity for you? This list of 15 questions will make that answer clear.

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Wellness & Mental Health

How To Start Your Healing Era

Have you ever wondered how to start your healing era? I think everyone should have one, every now and then. You can’t girlboss your way to your dreams without stopping to smell the flowers, otherwise you’ll just end up burnt out.

We’re taught to hustle and grind, to chase our dreams, to keep running on the hamster wheel of the corporate world, or some other arbitrary goal. As valid as those goals are, life takes its toll and it’s important to take inventory of all that we have achieved, lick our wounds, and offer ourselves the grace of gathering our strength again.

Much like nature, we undergo seasons of growth, of prosperity, of loss, and of hibernation. Many underestimate the importance of this hibernation, this cocoon phase. But it is, in fact, where the magical transformation happens!

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Lumen's Diary

New Moon in Scorpio

Much like the moon, I have seasons of coming and going, waxing and waning. Of being bright and radiant, and then going completely and utterly dark. Sometimes it’s necessary — this surrendering into your own

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Glow Up

High Value Woman Formula: The 4 Key Pillars

Are you passionate about leveling up, but found yourself daunted by the overwhelming list on how to become a high value woman? Don’t fret, you’re probably not the only one! It may sound complicated 
at first glance, but when you truly understand what it’s about, the high value woman formula is… quite simple.

In this article, I will show you an easy and concise roadmap to becoming the woman of your own dreams. Let’s get started.

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Relationships

What does a healthy relationship look like?

Disagreements may still appear even in healthy relationships, and it’s ok, as communication is essentual for a healthy dynamic. However, his approach to disagreements is a secure one: each will share their perspective.

And if feelings were hurt or mistakes were made, he takes accountability for his side, and makes genuine apologies followed by reparations and direct actions (ie. “I’m sorry I did x, I didn’t mean to hurt you. I will be/do y in the future”, and then does as he promised).

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Lumen's Diary

Darling, It Gets Better (Lumen’s Diary)

I hope my story inspires you to not give up on yourself. Wherever you may be in life, whatever phase or age, it’s always worth it to start loving yourself, to start believing in yourself. I’m not saying it’s easy or fast. After all, it took me 10 years to get here. But you can make this shift in mindset, energy and confidence in 1 year if you really want, and you’re brave enough to choose yourself and decide that you deserve better. You can learn from my mistakes and make the change now, instead of later.

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Dark Feminine

Dark Feminine Energy: Avoid This Common Trap

Dark femininity is an incredibly empowering tool, but falling into this common trap leads a lot of girls and women astray.. into playing games and chasing men, instead of leading them into their own power.

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Relationships

6 Signs You’re Ready to Date Again

You took a break from dating because you weren’t in the right headspace after a messy break-up or toxic rollercoaster of situationships, or just simply being stuck on an ex. Maybe your boundaries, confidence or mental health needed prioritizing first. But now that you did, you’re feeling wary of dipping your toes in the dating pool again. You may be asking yourself, what now? How do you know you’re ready to date again?