Do make your boundaries clear. Throughout your dates, be communicative to your partner about how things are going to work with you. If you don’t do 50/50, say so. If you are very busy and only have time a few hours a week, say so. If anything physical is off the table, say so. Whatever is your high standard, make it clear and don’t worry about coming off as too strong or high-maintenance. A gentleman, a man of high value in fact appreciates a strong-minded woman who knows what she wants, and doesn’t settle for less. He will admire your clarity and honesty. The men that mind your boundaries and standards don’t matter, and those that matter won’t mind.