This system of values is not about qualities that people are born with. It is not something outside our power that we have either inherited or not. Instead, this system of values is something that we all develop for ourselves, choose for ourselves, create for ourselves. It is about values, beliefs and principles. It is about priorities, morals and mindset. It is about good manners, empathy and emotional intelligence. And that is the responsibility of each and every individual. And if you hold yourself to high standards, you should absolutely do the same to everything else in life, especially a partner! Here are the most common red flags of LVM, so you don’t have the learn the hard way…